Stop Avoiding What You Love: A Better Way to Treat Pain in Dover, NH
- hollylewis603
- May 4
- 3 min read
Have you ever been told:
“Stop running, it’s bad for your knees.”
“Don’t lift weights, it will hurt your back.”
“Avoid that movement if it causes pain.”
At first, this sounds helpful. But let’s be honest, if you keep stopping everything that hurts, where does it end?
Do you stop exercising?
Stop gardening?
Stop playing with your kids?
Stop doing the things you love?
That’s not a real solution. That’s just shrinking your life.
There Has to Be a Better Way To Treat Pain
At 603 PT & Wellness in Dover, NH, we see this all the time, especially with adults 35+ going through perimenopause and menopause.
Your body is changing:
Hormones shift
Recovery takes longer
Joints and tendons feel different
Bone health becomes more important
But that does NOT mean you should stop being active.
Pain is not a stop sign. It’s a signal.
Instead of asking:👉 “What should I stop doing?”
We ask:👉 “Why does this hurt, and how can we fix it?”
The Problem With “Just Stop Doing It”
If stopping worked, you’d already feel better.
But what actually happens?
Muscles get weaker
Bones lose strength
Confidence drops
Pain often comes back anyway
Avoiding movement can make things worse over time, especially during menopause when bone health and strength really matter.
Your body needs movement to stay strong.
Let’s Get to the Root Cause
Most pain we treat is mechanical pain. That means it comes from:
How you move
How you load your body
Strength or mobility limits
Good news: this type of pain is VERY treatable.
Instead of removing activities, we:
Adjust how you do them
Build strength where you need it
Improve mobility and control
Gradually return you to what you love
You don’t need less activity, you need the right activity.
Simple Things You Can Do at Home
You don’t have to wait to start feeling better. Try these simple tips:
1. Use a Lumbar Roll When Sitting
Sitting a lot? This is a game changer.
A lumbar roll (or even a small towel) supports your lower back.
How to use it:
Place it at your low back when sitting
Sit tall, not slouched
Use it at your desk or in the car
This can reduce back pain and help your posture without forcing it.
2. Keep Moving (Even If It’s Not Perfect)
Movement is medicine.
If something hurts:
Don’t stop completely
Modify it
Reduce intensity or time
Example:
Instead of quitting walks → walk shorter distances
Instead of stopping strength training → use lighter weights
3. Add Strength Training (2–3x/week)
This is HUGE for:
Bone health
Joint support
Hormone balance
Injury prevention
Even foundational bodyweight exercises help:
Squats
Step-ups
Wall push-ups
4. Use the “24-Hour Rule”
It’s okay if movement causes mild discomfort during exercise.
But:
Pain should be gone within 20-30 minutes of activity
If it frequently lasts 24 hours it will likely become inflammed
It should not get worse each time
If it does, adjust, not avoid.

A New Standard of Care
Physical therapy should not just help you after injury.
It should help you:
Stay active
Prevent setbacks
Build strength for life
Feel confident in your body again
We don’t just want you out of pain… we want you to be thriving.
You Don’t Have to Sit on the Sidelines
Being told to stop everything isn’t a long-term plan.
You deserve better care.
You deserve answers.
You deserve to stay active.
Local Care You Can Trust
At 603 PT & Wellness in Dover, NH, we work with adults throughout the Seacoast region who want to stay active and strong as they age. Many of our patients come from nearby communities including:
Dover
Portsmouth
Durham
Somersworth
Rochester
Exeter
Greenland
Newmarket



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