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Stop Avoiding What You Love: A Better Way to Treat Pain in Dover, NH

  • Writer: hollylewis603
    hollylewis603
  • May 4
  • 3 min read

Have you ever been told:

  • “Stop running, it’s bad for your knees.”

  • “Don’t lift weights, it will hurt your back.”

  • “Avoid that movement if it causes pain.”


At first, this sounds helpful. But let’s be honest, if you keep stopping everything that hurts, where does it end?


Do you stop exercising?

Stop gardening?

Stop playing with your kids?

Stop doing the things you love?


That’s not a real solution. That’s just shrinking your life.


There Has to Be a Better Way To Treat Pain


At 603 PT & Wellness in Dover, NH, we see this all the time, especially with adults 35+ going through perimenopause and menopause.


Your body is changing:

  • Hormones shift

  • Recovery takes longer

  • Joints and tendons feel different

  • Bone health becomes more important


But that does NOT mean you should stop being active.


Pain is not a stop sign. It’s a signal.


Instead of asking:👉 “What should I stop doing?”


We ask:👉 “Why does this hurt, and how can we fix it?”


The Problem With “Just Stop Doing It”


If stopping worked, you’d already feel better.


But what actually happens?

  • Muscles get weaker

  • Bones lose strength

  • Confidence drops

  • Pain often comes back anyway


Avoiding movement can make things worse over time, especially during menopause when bone health and strength really matter.


Your body needs movement to stay strong.


Let’s Get to the Root Cause


Most pain we treat is mechanical pain. That means it comes from:

  • How you move

  • How you load your body

  • Strength or mobility limits


Good news: this type of pain is VERY treatable.


Instead of removing activities, we:

  • Adjust how you do them

  • Build strength where you need it

  • Improve mobility and control

  • Gradually return you to what you love


You don’t need less activity, you need the right activity.


Simple Things You Can Do at Home


You don’t have to wait to start feeling better. Try these simple tips:


1. Use a Lumbar Roll When Sitting


Sitting a lot? This is a game changer.


A lumbar roll (or even a small towel) supports your lower back.


How to use it:

  • Place it at your low back when sitting

  • Sit tall, not slouched

  • Use it at your desk or in the car


This can reduce back pain and help your posture without forcing it.


2. Keep Moving (Even If It’s Not Perfect)


Movement is medicine.


If something hurts:

  • Don’t stop completely

  • Modify it

  • Reduce intensity or time


Example:

Instead of quitting walks → walk shorter distances

Instead of stopping strength training → use lighter weights


3. Add Strength Training (2–3x/week)


This is HUGE for:

  • Bone health

  • Joint support

  • Hormone balance

  • Injury prevention


Even foundational bodyweight exercises help:

  • Squats

  • Step-ups

  • Wall push-ups


4. Use the “24-Hour Rule”


It’s okay if movement causes mild discomfort during exercise.


But:

  • Pain should be gone within 20-30 minutes of activity

  • If it frequently lasts 24 hours it will likely become inflammed

  • It should not get worse each time


If it does, adjust, not avoid.


Woman Gardening, discussion about pain

A New Standard of Care


Physical therapy should not just help you after injury.


It should help you:

  • Stay active

  • Prevent setbacks

  • Build strength for life

  • Feel confident in your body again


We don’t just want you out of pain… we want you to be thriving.


You Don’t Have to Sit on the Sidelines


Being told to stop everything isn’t a long-term plan.


You deserve better care.

You deserve answers.

You deserve to stay active.


Local Care You Can Trust


At 603 PT & Wellness in Dover, NH, we work with adults throughout the Seacoast region who want to stay active and strong as they age. Many of our patients come from nearby communities including:


Dover


Portsmouth


Durham


Somersworth


Rochester


Exeter


Greenland


Newmarket

 
 
 

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